Yeah. When life gives you lemons you learn to like lemonade. And when life gives you incontinence issues you learn to like diapers.
I've also never hidden I was abdl before I became incontinent. In a way that made things worse for me at first. I sort of felt like I was making up the excuse to wear diapers 24/7. Eventually I realized I loved wearing diapers AND legitimately needed them too. So embracing diapers was the best thing I've ever done.