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I have found that the store brand at Cabelas that are relaxed fit work really well over my diapers. https://www.cabelas.com/shop/en/redhead-8-pocket-hiker-shorts-for-men

Gary Activewear PUL pants are fantastic, PUL diaper covers in general make such a difference

Most any pants or shorts, 1 size larger than normal, will accommodate diapers fairly well. Also, I found anything with extra creases or pockets (like pleated pants) visually break up the area around your crotch, which helps hide a diaper quite nicely. One other thing that helps hide a diaper is a good diaper cover. Leaks are a dead give away, so containing them before it becomes outwardly noticable is a must. I personally prefer Gary Activewear PUL pants. I wear them inside out, so the nylon layer is on the inside. This allows the cover to absorb some of a leak, while also helping me to notice it a little faster. PUL pants also muffle diaper crinkling too, furthering one's stealth.

in some places its law https://www.cbsnews.com/minnesota/news/adult-changing-tables-are-now-minnesota-law-in-all-new-public-restrooms/ i like this idea and would like to see them in family restrooms, i change myself so its not something i would use but for those that do need this it would be great

Yeah, I have a 2-day hospital go bag I brought with me. And also had my wife bring me a full bag of crinklz. When she showed up with the new bag the nurse went off her rocker and declared them banned and put away in a storage cabinet. That's when she went to that horrible vacuum collection system (periwiz). It leaked 2x the first evening, 4x the next day, and 1 more the next morning. I could feel a rash setting in so that's when I said screw the nurse and went back to my diapers this morning. Haven't seen her since then, but don't care.

It is! I've been sitting on a really basic bed pad. It doesn't have much padding and the top acquisition layer is a rougher/stiffer mesh that is gently digging into my skin and making it more certain any urine will be dierctly in contact with my skin. It also seems to be letting sweat accumulate on my skin too. With everything put together I'm certain my skin is getting slightly worse. And yeah, they have been having to check me at least once every 4 hours. It's only a matter of time when I can point out how much worse this is. Even with this automatic vacuum collectorthing. Now if I was using any of those cheap medical brands they have available here, or some other store-bought diaper, things would be much worse still. They'd have to check/change me ever 2 hours minimum. Something nobody wants and is likely the reason for their no diapers policy. Though through their ignorance it's unfairly applied. Their policy should be no store bought or medical grade diapers. Premium or abdl diapers having the obvious exception.

I bought a similar item through amazon. These hide diapers very well: https://www.amazon.com/Guide-Gear-Cargo-Shorts-Wakota/dp/B09P4CSTMM/ref=sr_1_6?crid=10TMOLK6J9DOH&keywords=guide+gear+men's+walking+shorts&qid=1695516343&sprefix=guide+gear+men's+walking+shorts%2Caps%2C119&sr=8-6

This is the exact reason I like these. John: You probably already know about Abena Abriform. I think they changed the name recently also. Pretty basic but they are reliable.

Bedwetter, nightly. I wear a variety of garments, usually cloth or disposable diapers and plastic pants, as demanded by circumstances. This affects other areas of my life. Whenever I plan to do something, I must plan for my bedwetting, too (e.g., travel). Self-wrangling has led from self-consciousness to self-acceptance, albeit somewhat grudging and resigning. Still a deeply personal issue; I rarely discuss this with others and prefer to keep it private. Bedwetting is expensive to manage. I’m ever seeking ways to economize: price-shopping and bargain-hunting. I want to stay informed with product reviews and availability. I’m not much of a joiner; more of a lurker. However, I’m listening, even when I don’t say much. More on a “need to know” basis.

welcome, its nice to have a place like this .. im pretty private also but i find that if i dont bring it you it dosent come up in day to day activities

I've always liked the front plastic landing zones for the tapes. Mostly, when the diapers is on, it's ON, and stays on, and I prefer to avoid readjusting whenever possible. But sometimes I miss, and it's nice to be able to untape and try again, if necessary

I just blew through a pack of InControl Elites. This is a very reliable go-to diaper. I'll be buying more of these in the future.

Hi and Welcome

Welcome. You're certainly not alone. One thing I've come to realize is, managing one's enuresis is a priority. I don't spend money on dining and entertainment, then skimp on my incontinence supplies. It's the other way around. I spend what's needed getting good diapers as I need, then I consider if I have enough spending money to eat out or go have fun. It may help if you look at it in a similar manner.

Welcome jbond. I share your desire for privacy but this site is the exception as it allows us to share and/or vent. We learn a lot from each other. --John

Welcome to the site!

Hi and welcome

What would society think of having adult changing tables in public restrooms in places like: restaurants, parks, amusement parks, supermarkets, gas stations, convenient stores… etc?

Like Scarth, I think it is a good idea, but, as I change myself I could not use them. --John

That's why all my nurses that take care of me for my medical issues knows fully well what diapers I wear and they are totally accepting. It's why when I come to my medical appointments or hospital stays, they are comfortable with me being diapered. Even as an EMT, I always have a diaper bag with me and on the back of the ambulance as well.

i could not have said it better

I probably more so get tired of the incontinence. The diapers are just objects. Peeing myself is the problem and that is always around but at times more frustrating.

I have gotten tired of diapers at times. But that has been EVERY time a manufacturer tried to slip one more price putting corner past their customers. Well, that and any time I've had to buy my diapers from a physical store.

YES!! Same here. Also agree with this. I don't mind whatever the reasons people have but I just can't contribute to some conversations.

No But I have to admit threads like this do set off alarm bells. I've seen enough online spaces for incontinent people get bombarded by diaper fetishists clearly using incontinence as an excuse to talk about diapers, not saying you're doing that here but it would be nice for there to be at least one space for incontinent people with useful discussions and advice that revolve around more than how much people love wearing diapers.

I am glad you can see some advantages to it. honestly, once you've realised how helpful it is, or can be, then it becomes easier to cope with. I remember how long it took me to get to school every day, and it helped that the driver didn't keep having to stop at the service stations for me to get out and use the toilet.

I very much accept my incontinence, i have tried what i can and im not getting any more control then i have, being ashamed of it is silly to me .. as silly as being ashamed of the glasses i wear or the cane i use, my diapers let me have a normal life.

The question may be indiscreet but I would like to know how you manage your sexuality while being incontinent? Since I am incontinent and find it difficult to have sex because of my bladder leakage I am unable to go without a diaper for a while. How do you do ?

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To be sure these are not meant for heavy incontinence, but are great for dribblers and small leakers.

I'll have to pass. These are washable garments, and appear to have a coverage and capacity of a pullup. Possibly a slight bit better. Being funtionally urinary incontinent I highly doubt these would last me 4+ hours, let alone the 8+ hours I get with a plastic disposable. Thank you though.

OK, I was getting my stuff through Walgreens as this week they are No longer shipping from the warehouse. I go a discount and free shipping with a monthly service. I have a couple of websites but was wondering what your opinion of Prevail per-fit 360 is. Everything I have read they are good to use. I am urinary Incontinent and wear 24/7.😗

It amazes me how incredibly diverse and differently shaped everyone's bodies are. A diaper that's a guaranteed fail for one person will be a guarantee win for the next person. Though unfortunately for anyone starting out that means a LOT of trial and error finding the right diaper.