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Gary Activewear PUL pants are fantastic, PUL diaper covers in general make such a difference
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Most any pants or shorts, 1 size larger than normal, will accommodate diapers fairly well. Also, I found anything with extra creases or pockets (like pleated pants) visually break up the area around your crotch, which helps hide a diaper quite nicely. One other thing that helps hide a diaper is a good diaper cover. Leaks are a dead give away, so containing them before it becomes outwardly noticable is a must. I personally prefer Gary Activewear PUL pants. I wear them inside out, so the nylon layer is on the inside. This allows the cover to absorb some of a leak, while also helping me to notice it a little faster. PUL pants also muffle diaper crinkling too, furthering one's stealth.
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I bought a similar item through amazon. These hide diapers very well: https://www.amazon.com/Guide-Gear-Cargo-Shorts-Wakota/dp/B09P4CSTMM/ref=sr_1_6?crid=10TMOLK6J9DOH&keywords=guide+gear+men's+walking+shorts&qid=1695516343&sprefix=guide+gear+men's+walking+shorts%2Caps%2C119&sr=8-6
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This is the exact reason I like these. John: You probably already know about Abena Abriform. I think they changed the name recently also. Pretty basic but they are reliable.
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Love hiking pants. Even though I can't walk well anymore I can still dress for the occasion. I just bought a pair of pants that were 2 sizes too big mostly because they were on clearance. I thought they actually worked really well. I DEFINITELY needed a belt but I couldn't see any hint of diaper bulge. I am normally a 34 but buy 36. I wanted to see what size 38 would look like but ended up with size 40. thanks for the link I will definitely check them out.
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That would be great, but I want to get our numbers up some before I approach any other advertisers. InControl was cool enough to come on early and finance our start-up in exchange for future traffic.
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I have found that the store brand at Cabelas that are relaxed fit work really well over my diapers. https://www.cabelas.com/shop/en/redhead-8-pocket-hiker-shorts-for-men
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welcome, i raised 2 kids i know the score
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welcome, its nice to have a place like this .. im pretty private also but i find that if i dont bring it you it dosent come up in day to day activities
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I've always liked the front plastic landing zones for the tapes. Mostly, when the diapers is on, it's ON, and stays on, and I prefer to avoid readjusting whenever possible. But sometimes I miss, and it's nice to be able to untape and try again, if necessary
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As I continue to experiment, I now am checking out the Abena Premium Slip Premium and the Incontrol Active Air. Previously I checked out the Semi Super Quatro and found it to be acceptable. The Incontrol Active Air has an ISO of 4350 (size XL) and lists a "capacity" of 4200 ml in size Medium ( am wearing size L. The Abena. lists a "total absorbency" of 4320 ml. So, the two are reasonably similar in terms of capacity. The Abena has a very thin breathable shell - so thin that it feels 'flimsy" to me (recall that I am used to the MegaMax Air) but it has performed adequately so far. The Incontrol Active Air does have a front taping panel, but it seems softer to me than that used on the MegaMax Airlock and did not cause irritation at the top of the diaper after I folded the excess inside. I should note that I am evaluating these diapers for daytime wear. At night I will continue to wear my BetterDry plastic-shell diapers (with a booster pad). --John
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I just blew through a pack of InControl Elites. This is a very reliable go-to diaper. I'll be buying more of these in the future.
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@John Davis: That's why I joined this site, and I'm also on a couple other sites, including adisc. It's private enough here that I chat with like-minded people, maybe get some tips & helpful hints. When life hands you a lemon, you can make lemonade but you still have to squeeze the lemon to get the juice out. I'm looking for easier & faster ways to get more juice out of the lemon.
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Welcome. You're certainly not alone. One thing I've come to realize is, managing one's enuresis is a priority. I don't spend money on dining and entertainment, then skimp on my incontinence supplies. It's the other way around. I spend what's needed getting good diapers as I need, then I consider if I have enough spending money to eat out or go have fun. It may help if you look at it in a similar manner.
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Welcome jbond. I share your desire for privacy but this site is the exception as it allows us to share and/or vent. We learn a lot from each other. --John
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Welcome to the site!
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Bedwetter, nightly. I wear a variety of garments, usually cloth or disposable diapers and plastic pants, as demanded by circumstances. This affects other areas of my life. Whenever I plan to do something, I must plan for my bedwetting, too (e.g., travel). Self-wrangling has led from self-consciousness to self-acceptance, albeit somewhat grudging and resigning. Still a deeply personal issue; I rarely discuss this with others and prefer to keep it private. Bedwetting is expensive to manage. I’m ever seeking ways to economize: price-shopping and bargain-hunting. I want to stay informed with product reviews and availability. I’m not much of a joiner; more of a lurker. However, I’m listening, even when I don’t say much. More on a “need to know” basis.
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After a rash developed under a skin fold, I have included a breathable diaper in my daily "ensemble." A major factor in my search for a breathable diaper has been to find one that does NOT have a front plastic taping panel. If it has such a plastic panel, it causes irritation after I fold the unused plastic back inside the waist. After some experimentation I have been using the Northshore Care Megamax Air that I regard as possibly the best breathable diaper on the market.🙂 However, following the general trend of diaper manufacturers of premium diapers to add a landing zone panel, Northshore Care now offers the Megamax AirLock with the plastic panel and has dropped the Megamax Air completely.😱 To replace the Megamax Air, I currently am trying the Seni Super Quatro. Is there another quality breathable without the plastic panel? It needs to have a respectable absorbent capacity. --John
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I think it's a good idea for especially the disabled and physically disabled.
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Like Scarth, I think it is a good idea, but, as I change myself I could not use them. --John
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They're already becoming more of a thing here in the UK thanks to an organization called Changing Places: we have several already in my city and a new one being built in my local town. https://www.changing-places.org/ I've never heard any complaints about the scheme so I don't see why society would mind as long as it doesn't intrude or step on any ones toes,
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in some places its law https://www.cbsnews.com/minnesota/news/adult-changing-tables-are-now-minnesota-law-in-all-new-public-restrooms/ i like this idea and would like to see them in family restrooms, i change myself so its not something i would use but for those that do need this it would be great
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What would society think of having adult changing tables in public restrooms in places like: restaurants, parks, amusement parks, supermarkets, gas stations, convenient stores… etc?