david49 Posted August 25, 2023 Share Posted August 25, 2023 The question may be indiscreet but I would like to know how you manage your sexuality while being incontinent? Since I am incontinent and find it difficult to have sex because of my bladder leakage I am unable to go without a diaper for a while. How do you do ? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slomo Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 I used to be able to have sex when I was urge incontinent. Back then I'd prep before sex by taking a deep breath and push a bit to try and pee. After that I'd just pull down the front of my diaper before having sex. That worked without further leaks 99% of the time. One of my urinary surgeries included a full prostate-ectomy though. They did the typical nerve sparing technique, but now I don't get hard enough for sex until I'm already about to climax. I can still "play by myself" as it is, but otherwise I had to give the wife a pass to an open marriage. Which seems to be working for us both. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
david49 Posted August 31, 2023 Author Share Posted August 31, 2023 thank you for sharing your experience. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarth Posted September 1, 2023 Share Posted September 1, 2023 having an understanding partner is the key for me, we talked about it and just except that i will wet some .. we got good bed pads and after i put a diaper on and cuddle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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