TooManyJaffaCakes Posted October 16, 2023 Share Posted October 16, 2023 Hello, 19F here. I started bed wetting when I was around 15-16. I feel it was my fault as I started participating in trying the peegasm where you hold in your pee and it gives good feelings. I never realised the danger of this and this all started. I was ashamed but had to get it checked out as I couldn't keep it away from my mother anymore. They put me through all these tests and everything was fine, the only thing they could offer me was medication that I didn't really feel comfortable taking but I did as it was getting so bad. I still have accidents most nights, they're just not as intense. The only odd thing is that I've noticed when I'm in a completely new bed, I'm completely fine, at least for the first couple of nights. Anyone else had this? I suppose my nerve endings are getting worse as recently during the day I've found myself having a sudden urge to go to the loo. I find this mostly sitting down. I've got a doctors appointment soon but I fear that they're just going to shove more pills in me, I want to get to the root problem and fix it!! Thank you!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brian Posted October 29, 2023 Share Posted October 29, 2023 On 10/16/2023 at 3:53 PM, TooManyJaffaCakes said: I suppose my nerve endings are getting worse as recently during the day I've found myself having a sudden urge to go to the loo. I find this mostly sitting down. I've got a doctors appointment soon but I fear that they're just going to shove more pills in me, I want to get to the root problem and fix it!! Thank you!! @TooManyJaffaCakes Your nerve endings may be getting worse, but Take heart: If you HAVE to release, you do NOT want to try to hold it back, hold it IN, or impede the release. If you have to go, then you should go, and not worry about it for the moment, as you are having difficulties and your situation kind of reminds me of what used to happen to me. My Mom used to tell me that I should not hold it in, and also NOT wait until I have no choice and would explode, as that can hurt your insides. If you need to use pull ups or diapers, you should not feel badly, because most times, meds can be helpful, but most times, all they do is to cause issues, or make things worse, and in order for you to find the right solution for your situation, it could take time, so do not dispair, as I have decided, because of my CP, that with my advancing age, its easier for me to use diapers due to the fact that I have been dealing with incontinence on and off all my life, and 2019 was the turning point, where I NEEDED to get help, and I asked for it, I got it, and went 24/7 in 2020, after having accidents get worse in august of 2019. when I did that, I joined DailyDiapers, because it is the ONE place where I knew I would be able to get help and support without being judged. On this site, it is always my aim to help as many people as i can, and I will let you know that you always have support should you need it 😉 Good Luck! Brian 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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