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i think its fantastic 

it's certainly appropriate for you to write and have someone else read it for you. my condolences for your loss  

Yeah more form urologists but far to many people are sure something besides a diaper would be better for my "quality of life"

We had a cat that linked to claw my stack of diapers, not enough to shred them just little claw holes in the stack, but that was one cat out of many we have had. as far as i know they are not attracted to the smell of the SAP

yes with metformin 

it really depends on how long i will be there .. 4 days or less i will bring my diapers with .. longer then that i will ship them to the the location before hand, hotels are happy to hole boxes for you before you check in, i like to bag mine and take then to the trash outside if im at my moms house .. more to not fill up the inside trashcan. 

welcome 🙂

The convention went well .. i packed right and came home with 3 diapers to spare 🙂

On 10/19/2023 at 12:53 PM, david49 said:

difference between PVC and PUL?

PUL is a coated fabric .. PVC is just vinyl .. PUL dose breath some and i think is more comfortable 

Ah ok yeah thats different ... i where Garywear active brief over my diaper .. they are really great for that, they are PUL so they are quiet and somewhat breathable   

If you are having minor leaks you should be good in a pullup .. the Carer briefs could also work best thing to do is try them at home and see what works for you 

I have, years before my stroke i injured my knee pretty bad and was on crutches for a few months, my day time control at the time was spotty if you will excuse the pun, with the limited mobility and the meds i wore full time 

Wow sounds like a very small minded person and an out of proportion reaction to a medical issue. does she say the same to people in wheelchairs cause everyone else walks ?   

2 hours ago, Slomo said:

Whatever number of diapers you normally need, always bring about 20% more.

that is exactly what i do and have not run out yet, i also have a emergency bag in the trunk of the girlfriends car that has 3 diapers ziplock of wipes a full day of meds 

Duluth Trading Company dose make some good diaper friendly clothing 

I uses those too when i have forgotten to bring a bigger bag .. i like using plastic grocery bags .. i pack a clean diaper in one then i have it to bag up the used one 

next month im volunteering at a convention and staying at a hotel for 3 days, i pack 5 diapers a day and bring a bed pad and my swim diaper so i can go to the hot tub . i bag up each used diaper  and when i can i deposit them in trash in the floors common trash so i dont have a lot in the room.. we also leave the maids a nice tip 

Gary Activewear PUL pants are fantastic, PUL diaper covers in general make such a difference 

I have found that the store brand at Cabelas that are relaxed fit work really well over my diapers. 

 https://www.cabelas.com/shop/en/redhead-8-pocket-hiker-shorts-for-men

welcome, i raised 2 kids i know the score 

welcome, its nice to have a place like this .. im pretty private also but i find that if i dont bring it you it dosent come up in day to day activities 

in some places its law https://www.cbsnews.com/minnesota/news/adult-changing-tables-are-now-minnesota-law-in-all-new-public-restrooms/

i like this idea and would like to see them in family restrooms, i change myself so its not something i would use but for those that do need this it would be great  

17 hours ago, Zombie_Turtle said:

I probably more so get tired of the incontinence.  The diapers are just objects.  Peeing myself is the problem and that is always around but at times more frustrating.

i could not have said it better

i have that issue at times with the bottom tape, one thing that helps me is i wear boxer briefs over my diaper .. it helps the diaper keep its shape and the tapes in place 

I very much accept my incontinence, i have tried what i can and im not getting any more control then i have, being ashamed of it is silly to me .. as silly as being ashamed of the glasses i wear or the cane i use, my diapers let me have a normal life.