To be honest - I wonder every time why people telling me that incontinence aids are so embarrassing. I’m incontinent for round about 6 years now and my real problem was to find the right aid that keeps my trousers dry and is still discreet and comfortable to wear.
For me it was never a question of the aids but of the incontinence itself that is and was hard to accept.
I tried really a lot of things to get rid of that shit and was at last partly successful until old spine problems flame up again and make a cure pretty impossible.
I think you can adopt to a lot of things and everything that doesn’t heart is easy to adapt (especially compared to my back pain)…